Posted by Penny on January 14, 2004, at 15:03:43
In reply to Ok Ladies, Listen UP!!!!, posted by Karen_kay on January 14, 2004, at 14:32:04
OMG!!!! Nope - NO WAY could I see him as a therapist! He is TOO YOUNG!!!! I'm 27 - he's not much older than I am! Not that I won't probably, at some point, be older than my T, but 29 is so YOUNG!!!!!
Wow...now that I've got that off my chest....
sorry - I could never ask a young male therapist a question like that. My older female T? Sure - b/c there's no possibility of my being sexually attracted to her or vice versa. Not that a 29-year-old attractive male therapist would be attracted to me either - I don't think people get attracted to me in 'that way', so that's not the point. But with my T it would be like talking to my mom in a way, but better, b/c I can be even more honest with my T than with my mom (mind you, my mom has always been pretty open about a lot of things - I don't think I've ever been afraid to ask her something that personal...).
Anyway - I guess he did prove his point to you that it's okay to fantasize, and I applaud you on actually asking him, but I would never want to know that! I would imagine it to be true without ever asking, but I wouldn't want verbal confirmation...
Though, I must say Ms. Karen - you make me want to read your post to my pdoc on Friday night to see what he says. Though it would be entirely too embarrassing. I see him as a dad-figure, and he's older (50) and I can say a lot of things to him, but I don't know that I could ever even use the word masturbation in front of him! Nope...
Though I think my T would think I had made major headway if I said anything about that in front of her.
Sigh.
Karen - you are too much...
:-))
P
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