Posted by judy1 on January 3, 2003, at 10:49:19
In reply to Re: More on Dissociative Disorder, posted by Sean01 on January 2, 2003, at 21:48:37
Tad,
What an incredible person you are- I know first hand how difficult it is to have a relationship with some one like myself and all the baggage I've accumulated. My husband is confused almost daily by my behavior but I think he has committed himself for the long haul and I sense that in your post with your feelings toward your girlfriend. To give you hope, I constantly threaten divorce and then forget about it and I think she is probably in the same category. Know that you are in for a lot of emotional ups and downs, but I think by letting her know your commitment she will eventually appreciate that support and come around. She is very fortunate to find such a compassionate person and I wish you both a lot of luck in the long path ahead of you. (I also wish dearly she would allow you to come to therapy, I finally did with my spouse and it helped enormously in his understanding and my relief that he really did want to help me despite all my 'flaws') I wish you both the best, and let us know how things work out. P.S. For many people with DD, the holidays are incredibly difficult, so that could explain what's going on know. take care, judy
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