Posted by Dinah on January 5, 2011, at 13:11:36
In reply to Re: What can I do? » Dinah, posted by twinleaf on January 5, 2011, at 13:00:33
I was saying that Phillipa also deserves respect.
As do you.
People don't deserve these very long threads about their alleged wrongdoings.
If anyone has concerns about administration regarding certain behaviors, they can be adequately addressed without making it all about one person. Better addressed, in fact.
But what on earth is Dr. Bob going to do about emails? Uncivil babblemails can be forwarded to him and they will be addressed. That's difficult enough since context isn't as easily discerned as it is on board. Emails are out of his hands.
Again, I tell everyone. Don't email, babblemail. Don't send posters any information you consider private unless you have very good reason to trust that person. For example, if you know that person for a long time and have observed how they behave with regard to confidentiality and gossip. I'm sure more than one person has passed information on. Trust sparingly and appropriately. Be discreet. Be kind.
Report uncivil babblemails to Dr. Bob. There's nothing he can do about uncivil emails. Don't email others if you're worried about that.
I don't see why one person has to be singled out to make those appropriate points. There's something to be said about being discreet and kind on board as well.
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