Posted by morgan miller on December 19, 2010, at 21:15:46
In reply to Re: To Dr. Bob » morgan miller, posted by Maxime on December 19, 2010, at 16:33:54
> I hope that if I had worded things perfectly, and the content was the same, that I would not have been blocked and you would have just redirected my post to this board.
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> The above is the part that scares me ... wording it perfectly. I have learned that wording phrases perfectly on this site is near impossible. I feel that no matter what I write that it could be taken the wrong way. Two or three words in a post could be misconstrued and "BAM" you are gone.
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> Sometimes it is not possible to re-word something without losing the meaning and the passion you want you your post to have. Even punctuation can give a sentence different meaning. I correct English/Communication papers all week for an undergraduate program as well as their final exams. I am always tempted to replace some of their words because it is grammatically correct. But I have to be careful because sometimes by changing one word, I can change the idea they were trying to get across. It's not easy.I agree, it is not easy. There must be more flexibility used in the enforcement of the rules here. Or there needs to be a change in the rules. Whatever it is, some type of adjustment should be made in my opinion.
What amazes me about you Dr. Bob is doing here is that being a doctor, you would think he understood that it can take people a very long time to learn to communicate their feelings in the best most productive manner.
Dr. Bob, people go to group therapy to learn how to better communicate with others, how do you expect everyone that comes here to be equipped to do so?
If people that are in a stable healthy state of mind struggle with the ability to communicate properly, how do you expect people that are not in a stable healthy state of mind to learn to always communicate properly here on Babble?
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