Posted by Dinah on October 16, 2005, at 22:51:16
In reply to Re: you are not your grammer » gardenergirl, posted by alexandra_k on October 16, 2005, at 22:31:43
> fear as to how others are likely to respond
> even if they need not respond that way?Sigh. I sometimes get a bit frustrated talking to you because you really do believe this. And I really do believe that you can't control your deep down response. You can talk to yourself rationally and try to convince yourself. But down under all that rationality is the truth. And unless you understand and acknowledge what you actually feel, resentment breeds and grows.
BTW, the you in the above sentences actually meant me. Or a general universal you.
And I'm glad you've found a way of thinking that helps you.
I just hope you realize that not everyone finds it equally as helpful for *them*. And here I definitely mean me. :)
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