Posted by Angel Girl on January 26, 2005, at 21:20:34
In reply to Re: It's only a few weeks away, luv -- l'll be back » Angel Girl, posted by Gabbix2 on January 26, 2005, at 17:29:55
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> > Just for clarification, has Atticus said something to you? He did give me his e-mail addy just as he left. I too have abandonment issues and that's why I am so affected by his departure even though I know he needs it to get well.
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> No, absolutely not, we've never spoken off board. I was just offering you my perspective because I've been on both sides.
> Someone I care about saying good bye triggers my emotional alarm system too, so I thought I could empathize with what you were going through. Sorry if I worried you.
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Not so much worried but confused since Atticus had given his e-mail addy to him after saying 'goodbye' on the boards last night. I do thank you for your insight from both sides. I certainly wouldn't want to do anything to harm Atticus's recovery time that he needs at this time, it's just so very hard for me because I thought we were starting to be friends and I have real abandonment issues and his departure fed directly into that. I know I'm not directly responsible for his situation but I am indirectly because this whole mess started because of my expressing my feelings over 'that' word. I really regret ever doing so.
However; I really do appreciate your input and insight.
Thank you!
AG
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