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Posted by rjlockhart04-08 on August 20, 2011, at 0:27:03
I have been very frustrated with not being able to have my own home. I live with my parents. What are some rules or hinters on how to move out? I don't want to waste anyone's time. This is what I've been thinking about for the past 30days. I hate my doctor but i still am going to have to kiss her *ss until I get what I want. What else am I suppost to say about her? double quack quack where my quack.
I am sick of this. Please someone help me.
Matt
Posted by sigismund on August 20, 2011, at 12:55:36
In reply to I want to move out. Can someone be my specialist, posted by rjlockhart04-08 on August 20, 2011, at 0:27:03
Look after your health.
Slowly stop taking drugs that are no benefit to you. They might feel like placebos, but they are doing all sorts of things to you, many of which are not understood.
And do the usual things people do for good health.
If you look good, it will be easier to move out, somehow.
Posted by Christ_empowered on August 20, 2011, at 16:12:33
In reply to Re: I want to move out. Can someone be my specialist » rjlockhart04-08, posted by sigismund on August 20, 2011, at 12:55:36
Can your parents help you financially? Not all parents can--or will, even if they have the resources--but many parents help their offspring. My parents understand my problems and have hit on a perfect solution: they're about to close on a house+apartment. I'm going to live in the apartment while they rent out the house. The rental will more than cover the mortgage, so after several years, my parents will be making money, not losing it.
This isn't realistic for everyone, of course. Real estate around here is relatively affordable, so its within reach of middle class people to do something like that. Even if that particular solution isn't possible for you, maybe they could help you out with a small apt. while you get a job?
Posted by rjlockhart04-08 on August 21, 2011, at 0:40:15
In reply to Re: I want to move out. Can someone be my specialist, posted by Christ_empowered on August 20, 2011, at 16:12:33
I find it very difficult to take care of my self because I have so much self-loathing and hatred for my choices I made its not easy to look at my self and say "your ok".
Anyways my parents don't have the money for an apartment for me. There not rich but there not poor. We live in small house in middle class neighborhood. Nothing really exciting. I am grateful I do have a car though and some NA friends. But I am ungrateful for what I don't have. I wrote a gratitude list because my sponser told me too because he thought it would make more grateful for things I have. It's ok I have it hanging in my desk in my room. I have a bigger and more important list of things I don't have. I'm have a pessimistic additude sometimes. But no, my parents can't afford me an apartment. That's why I'm looking into disablity and MHMR in tarrant county texas. I wish I could stay with someone here on the boards but I'm just so f*ck*ng like a pussy and I'm afraid I might cause someone more problems than I myself cause. I wish I could just hold someone and they would tell me its gonna be ok. I have just so much that I have thought problems and I just want someone to rescue me out of it.
I am grateful for everyone that posts to my posts here on dr.bob.org. Thank you for your advice in imput.It looks pretty much im going to have to work my way out of my problems.
Regards,
Matt
Posted by sigismund on August 21, 2011, at 20:19:19
In reply to Re: I want to move out. Can someone be my specialist, posted by rjlockhart04-08 on August 21, 2011, at 0:40:15
>I find it very difficult to take care of my self because I have so much self-loathing and hatred for my choices I made its not easy to look at my self and say "your ok".
It is also because you are young enough to take your health for granted.
That is the main reason older people look after themselves better....because the consequences of not doing so are obvious. When you are young it is not obvious at all.
Posted by linkadge on August 27, 2011, at 21:42:31
In reply to I want to move out. Can someone be my specialist, posted by rjlockhart04-08 on August 20, 2011, at 0:27:03
All you ever do is come on here and talk about how you **need** dexedrine or adderal or whatever, and how your stupid doctor and mom won't let this happen and how your life is ruined because of this.
Getting dexedrine is not going to magically make your life work. Even if you convince some doctor to give you amphetamines (which you probably wont), what difference will it really make? How will your life be better?
If you want your life to be better apply for a job, get a job and move out and quit complaining already. What could be simpler?
Linkadge
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