Posted by alexandra_k on June 12, 2020, at 20:19:12
In reply to Re: racism vs nepotism, posted by alexandra_k on June 12, 2020, at 17:38:41
Actually, from memory, I think she said that her father said that if she wanted her teeth fixed then she could wait until she was older and choose how she wanted to spend her money. So she could decide as an adult whether it was something she valued enough to do that.
And I think his take was that boob jobs (vs reconstruction) was indeed a similar thing and he would take a similar stance.
I think it matters. What he said about his rationale. I don't know how damaging it was to her... She did work in Ethics. She seemed smart / genuine / to have a moral sense. From memory. I mean to say that she told me that story and it got me thinking about things... Which may have been the point to her having told it to me...
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