Posted by alexandra_k on July 31, 2017, at 1:27:03
In reply to Hard time attracting women...anyone?, posted by Jay_OriginalOne on July 30, 2017, at 10:54:18
X2 on people getting to know you.
I can tell my story so I wouldn't want to meet me... Even my best case, I'm not sure I would want to meet me.
But then, if I met me, as an actual other person, I think we'd get along just fine. I don't know that I'd want to date me... But you get the general idea.
Some of the more dubious friends I've had (on paper) were some of the people who most solidly and genuinely had my back through some of my hardest times.
They were people who I enjoyed doing things with. Going for walks and stuff like that. Maybe because the actual walk was enjoyable and we were able to just kind of enjoy it together.
I guess that's why people join clubs and stuff. So they are more likely to meet people who they can enjoy spending time with since they enjoy doing the same things.
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