Posted by alexandra_k on October 3, 2014, at 15:56:17
In reply to Machine is turning, posted by ClearSkies on October 3, 2014, at 8:32:00
I agree with Poet, it isn't running. I remember you saying before that you really didn't like where you were living at all and were only there because of your relationship. I remember asking you if you could persuade him to move to a different part of the country where you would be happier...
I remember you saying that it would be hard because of leaving your therapist. And some other social supports that you had. Women's group. You really must be finding your strength in realising that you can find good relationships wherever you go... I think weather is a lot more important than people typically credit. I know for sure I am about a million times happier where I am right now than what I would be if I had have gone off to the slushy gloomy south to swim with the penguins... I'd love to be there during the summer, truth be told, but the winter would about kill me. Remembering back to my time in North Carolina... The summers about killed me there. I sweat more than about anyone else I know and I have issues around wearing light summer clothing... It was torture, really, no fun at all. I can't imagine living in Florida...
Where are you going to go? I think it would be a lot of fun to be able to research places... And possibly even visit... And then choose. Are you going to stay in the US or go to Canada? Big city or smaller town? I guess it might make some kinda sorta sense to go where there are people you know... Or not... You could always go visit. And I guess there is a different cost of living involved in different places... Making that kind of trade-off... Big city or smaller town... In the city or more suburbia... What fun.
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