Posted by 7Towers on May 26, 2010, at 21:26:15
In reply to Re: pysch troubles » sar, posted by kazoo on July 18, 2001, at 0:55:53
"She was angry with your suicide attempt/ideation because it points to her as a FAILURE in her discipline. A professional does not like, or want, to fail. They're not suppose to, but when they do, they feel it just as badly as all other survivors of a suicide. This is not the kind of "feeling" one wants, or needs, so understand why she reacted that way."
It is percisely this response which came from not a healthy therapist but an emotionally crippled one. Also its the belief that a Person is entitled to hold another accountable for his/her feelings of failure at their job is downright insane and the very sickness for which we have all become fragmented and deeply wounded. From a professional whoose job is supportative guidance so the patient can heal the fragments bringing about wholeness instead delivers more of same toxic slop is truly sad. They of all people should know better than most that this is very harmful.
Proper boundries , and rules that provide structure are a must providing for consistancy and clarity where eventually safety is felt through experience. These should and can be kept integral and should the therapist take a clients behaivor personally it should be delt with privately by therapist and not allowed to enter into the client treatment which would be toxic.
We are accountable for our own actions. Anothers behaivor we have no control over nor are we responsible for anyones elses feelings. We can be an influence and only when we have earned thier respect and trust in that they experience no manipulation , and more often experience a genuine desire to help bring about our healing "Seeing us" and we are not an extension of them ..
This extension madness has gone on long enough and the whole world is growing more insane.
The Mind is a wonderful slave and makes an abysmal Master.
Self introspection plays a crucial role , watch your mind because only you can through the observer which we all have, you will find there the highest validation dispelling insanities lies with truth that none can put asunder . In Love Me/Us/and WE find exquisite freedom to be.
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