Posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on May 22, 2010, at 1:09:03
Wow, it's been a "few days" since I last visited. Sorry folks...just experiencing too much of "life" to get on with "living".
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*Jay gets new wheels: buys a brand new Mazda M6..tires inflated with nitrogen (oooowwwwoooaahhhh..) Price: a few $$$$$$$$ too much *$#@
*Jay almost loses his job because he fails a basic safety training course. (Not my fu*kin' fault...as*shole who was teaching it was a little teen-aged baby..) I re-take the training again next week, and I HAVE to pass....urrggggggg
So, as always, the topic of "Women" is on the table. I should start my own business.."How to wreck a romance in two weeks or less (and let the 'other' use the fact that you say that (previous), against you!)". Now, I have been going through women...errr...dates, like...well, like quite a bit. Hmmph. And I am the one who is supposed to have a mental disorder? Well...here goes: One of my dates flipped out on me and told me to get lost because I called her back 5 days after our second date. No, it wasn't because it was too late...but because I must be some kind of weirdo, who stalks women and is very controlling. And, all of this was even just barely after I said "hello...". And, I even let her know that I had got us (sold out) tickets for a concert in July that she had *really* wanted to go to. After I mentioned that, she just told be I could not "count on ever seeing her again" and *boom*..she was gone! Okay, I will leave commentary until the end...that was JUST too creepy!Okay, I meet this other woman, and we had met off of an online dating service. We had been talking for many, many months, and only live about 5 minutes from each other. Anyhow, she was/is a teacher, and seemed to like to rule her life as if everybody around her where students. First date: nice bottle of red wine in a Mexican bistro...excellent! Second date: dinner at a very nice seafood and steakhouse place...errr...good, but she brings something up (no, I don't mean, like, throw up..lol) that really throws me for a 180 degree loop. She says to me "I saw my ex fiancé the other day, on (the dating website we met on)"..and she goes on.."You know how easy it would be for me to get him back, marry him, and have kids....he would be such an excellent father..". So, if that doesn't kill the mood???!!! Then, that night, when I drop her off at home, she grabs me and starts making out with me. I admit, I am kinda infatuated with this woman. She is my usual craving: She looks like the actress Helen Hunt a bit: Blonde hair (blonde's drive me crazy!!), natural shape, smart, yummy yummy...etc. :P But, Holy Sheep Dip, I guess red wine makes some women very...ummm..turned on, as well. (Yes, and my "George Clooney" looks just drive 'em crazy!)Dreaming again...sorry..lol.
So if you are still actually reading this...congradulations!..haha. But, third date, well it was a nice Sunday morning brunch in a quaint and beautiful little town along the Border. And guess what is one of the first thing she says? "I saw (ex-fiancé) online yesterday, and I was really tempted." I am just like, okay, I will be nice and just stay quiet and calm. Also, mind you, by this time, we had both communicated to each other that we where only interested in something long-term, committed, and hopefully leading to marriage and kids. This is about 3 weeks now, and we agree that we are going out "mutually exclusively". But, I still have those "ex" comments stuck in the back of my mind..lol...and..:(. Sweet AND Sour...
So, I drop her off, we have a very nice little kissing "session"..lol, and I feel a bit better.Well, that night I was checking my email, and I had noticed she had mostly never gotten back to my emails from the past. (Must be about 10 or so now..) So, I sent her a very nice letter, asking her in a very kind and diplomatic voice, that whenever she gets a chance to, could she possibly get back to one of my emails. I told her I understood some people didn't like using email, and I could certainly take the time and wait, no problem. So, I get a call from her the next day..."Hi Jay...I think we are going to have to cancel our date on Friday." "Why?" I ask. She says "Well, I thought you where being very demanding and selfish in that email you sent to me. I need my room to do as I wish." I said.."The only reason I brought it up is because writing in a physical, printed form sometimes helps me communicate better." She didn't buy it...that was a deal-breaker...and bye-bye!
Oh, there are a number of other stories to tell in between as well. So many woman...lol. Ohhhh..I forgot to tell you about this stripper who ripped me off for a 100 bucks. Next week....Thank you...and my tears are slowing down a bit...goodnight...
Jay
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