Posted by rjlockhart04-08 on October 27, 2009, at 22:55:15
In reply to Re: My brother..., posted by Phillipa on October 27, 2009, at 16:17:50
Yes, your right on something's that families maybe can hurt, yet their is an aspect why they do, and you can't blame because they have their right's in making a desicion. I want to reconnect with my family but I know that I have some..on down the road, maybe it would get unstable again with something. I never really argued much with anyone in my family. See right now I'm sitting at home, and I'm not talking with my parent's because I just...am not in the mood to talk, and they can say bitter things, yet someone told me once have "duck-feather's"...which is the best advice I've heard, that was also a person I want to connect to, which is my uncle.
My brother is more of "loyalty" thing, the only thing is I overananylze things and if I don't...then i just do socially awkward things, and my brother would point them out, in a way to help, I don't know just at the time I was being prideful. I would talk about everything with him and would listen, but never tell "drama" to anyone when it's not relevent to their life, unless their a couselor being well-paid.
I regret, alot of impulsive things I did in the past, because they up to bite hard. How do you go to a family and say "hey, I did this, and i'm sorry" that just doesnt cut it...
Now...that's all I can put.
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