Posted by Deneb on June 18, 2009, at 18:04:00
In reply to What's to be scared about? » Deneb, posted by Bobby on June 18, 2009, at 12:22:16
> Tell him to go F**k himself and leave you alone. he'll get the message. you didn't dicuss all of that sex -education stuff with him did you? That can trigger a guy who's testosterone levels are where his sound like they are. I say drop him like a hot potato and tell him what a big mistake just unfolded----and DON"T tell him anything like, "I'm sorry--we can start over as friends." It's way past that now. you just need to find the right person---and when you do---you'll know(I hope)However, I have to say that ,personally, I think online is the absolute worst way to meet a guy for you. O.K--got to go to work and worry about other stuff. Chill--please! write back once-----say no--and end it---simple!?
I was nice about it. I wrote that I wasn't aware that the word intimate meant sex. I apologized for leading him on and told him I wasn't looking for an intimate encounter and to please not correspond with me any longer.
No, I didn't discuss all that sex education stuff with him, but I have mentioned it to other guys. I am so naive. I'm like a young teen. It just doesn't cross my mind that some guys just want to have sex and that discussing sex openly might give them the wrong idea.
I just have no experience with guys wanting sex from me.
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