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Re: ((((Kath)))) » Bobby

Posted by Kath on February 17, 2009, at 14:12:20

In reply to ((((Kath)))), posted by Bobby on February 17, 2009, at 12:53:28

> Try to look foward. It's a habit that must be practiced.

~ ~ - Hi Bobby - Thanks. Looking forward to the winter being over is an excellent idea. I'll try to just imagine the Spring shoots poking up through the earth. I think I'll let my 'inner child' make a drawing (with my non-dominant hand) & put it on the fridge!!

Other forms of looking forward can cause me trouble, as they trigger worrying. My T suggested that when I'm stressed - to think of & plan for my DH & my retirement in the country. That doesn't work for me, as a main part of my stress is whether our son will ever be successful in being on his own. There's a 'gremlin' inside me that keeps pushing forward the image of us always having him living in our rec room (or wherever).

I wish I could be positive & create the image of him living happily & successfully independent - not with us. I'm not sure how I can achieve this.

Thanks for your hugs & your support. :-))
Kath

PS - isn't it something how some little curved lines around my name feels warming & reassuring!!

 

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