Posted by Kath on February 14, 2009, at 20:25:28
In reply to Re: I feel bad about thinking this *trigger??*, posted by Deneb on February 14, 2009, at 2:11:50
Hi Deneb,
I think it's good that you're giving this some thought & analysis.
Do you talk with your T about it?
I think in the past one time, you realized that knowing your friends care about you is really important to you (isn't it to us all!!) & that sometimes you used not the healthiest ways to get them to show you that.
It's not easy to come right out & say, "Hey - I feel like I need some attention" (or reassurance, or whatever it is we need)
It might not be all that hard for some people to say "I need a hug". But for that same person, it could be hard to say "I need to know people care about me"
We're such complex beings.
Well Deneb, I care about you & value you & am certainly glad that you're part of my life!
hugs, Kath
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