Posted by Sky Brite Line on July 29, 2008, at 23:18:41
In reply to Betrayal and overwhelming grief, posted by jammerlich on July 29, 2008, at 19:18:20
Last week, this person went behind my back and called my ex husband. She had to seek out his number because I refused to give it to her. I felt angry and betrayed, but I did understand that her actions came from a place of caring. We talked and I let her know the thing which bothered me the most is the fact that she didn't let me know she had done it. And that she told him not to tell me either. I thought we were on the path toward working things out.
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If there is any way to make up, and be in harmony. Thats really possible again, but if a person choses to go their own way.....then let them. But i know what pain of rejection and abandonment feels like, in this case its betrayel. But think was it all betrayal? was their anything that had her motive to do this?
So, I may have misunderstood something i read, but what the post says, it looks she really befriended you. But! that doenst mean permenment. Call her later, and just say "hi! how you doing?" act like it didnt happen and see the response.
Deputies......sometimes when i get really mad about something. So anything, that was said against this person. It was my first thought of how they treated jammer.
Sorry if any got out of hand.
S-K-Y
poster:Sky Brite Line
thread:842914
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