Posted by Jay_Bravest_Face on July 2, 2008, at 17:05:21
In reply to A bad thing about caring, posted by Deneb on June 30, 2008, at 23:52:17
That's the flaw in love, Deneb. Caring means there is never love without pain. If you sit there and think about it too much, it's causing yourself even more pain, and hence is just not a good thing to do. If we want to care, we want to love, we will be depressed when something bad happens to what we love or care about. But that does certainly not by any means mean we should stop caring or loving. There is no easy answer, I am sorry, we just have to deal with it in our own ways. Or not deal with it...and that has it's consequences too. Sometimes I wish there was a "Handbook 101" that comes along when we are born into this world..lol.
Always with Hope...
Jay
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