Posted by caraher on November 17, 2007, at 14:56:59
In reply to Worried about rape??, posted by Faedra on November 17, 2007, at 12:51:56
(((Faedra)))
It sounds like you probably were not raped, though if someone gave you a drugged drink you were certainly assaulted! You might as well get an AIDS test if a negative result would set your mind at ease; it can't hurt!
And please don't feel ashamed! It isn't wrong to go to a bar, and it doesn't sound as if you were intending to drink to excess. You had a really bad experience you probably wish you never had, but it's over. Don't beat yourself up about it! That was a year ago; if this experience repeated itself several times since then maybe you should re-evaluate your decisions, but it sounds like this was just a one-time incident over which there's no need to bludgeon yourself emotionally.
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