Posted by ClearSkies on November 1, 2007, at 22:04:28
In reply to Lies *trigger*, posted by jammerlich on November 1, 2007, at 11:05:53
Jammer, the scales have fallen from your eyes, and in doing so, every hurt cuts even more deeply. For this I am so very sorry - but you are fortunate in knowing that you'll be able to put this part of your life behind you.
I wish that for every lie that you're able to detect, you can hold up a new piece of armour. Protected!! Picture your hand up in front of you - defending you. With each lie told and detected by you, the hand/armour goes up again. Put that hand up! Protected!! (Talk to the hand, 'cause the ears ain't listening.) It sounds silly, but a little exercise like that can help you build up your defenses, both literally AND figuratively.
Oh, and get good and angry - that's a great one. (If you can - you may be hurting too much for that right now, but later on you'll be able to do it!)
Hanging in there with you,
ClearSkies
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