Posted by rskontos on October 29, 2007, at 13:17:20
In reply to Not getting better » Phil, posted by Ashlynn99 on October 29, 2007, at 12:17:45
Ashlynn, I am newbie to this board but not babble. Is there anyway just to go home for a visit to see if it is homesickness and if you visited maybe you could explore your feelings. It could be you are homesick but going back isn't the right answer either. IT could be growing pains. You may be in a transition phase where you have outgrown home but needed the security it represents but you are not yet ready to call your new place home because it doesn't feel like it yet. We all need to visit home especially right after going away. It might be too early to through in the towel and burn your bridges with the new guy since you do call him the love of your life. I live in an area I hate but it home for now. It is where my husband is, I would move in a heartbeat but I am here for now. It is where his job is. I don't like this part of the country but it is where we live. Maybe you dont really like where you are living. Maybe try one thing at a time, look for a new job or hobby while you are searching for a better job. But try going home for a visit first. Hope this helps. I think you need to explore your options before you make a decision. good luck. I understand depression. I am there too. Let me know how it goes. rk
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