Posted by Kath on August 15, 2007, at 14:52:18
In reply to Re: If you'd just lose weight you'd be gorgeous! » Kath, posted by TexasChic on August 14, 2007, at 20:57:59
> Thanks Kath. I'm actually a recovering super-insanely-low-self-esteem-oholic, so I'm not very good at accessing my own looks. But I gotten much better at avoiding the negative self talk as much as possible. I'm actually pretty embarrassed that I posted this so I could get all these assurances that I'm "pretty". I mean, how lame is that?
>>>>>>Oh you stop it!!!!! It's not lame at all!
We reach out for help when we need it & how do you think I feel always blathering on about my son this/my son that/ on & on????I just vaugely (sp?) remember I'm pretty sure I saw your photo...you're blonde right? And if you need input about your looks what's wrong with that?
If someone had anorexia & needed help knowing that others saw them as NOT fat, there's nothing wrong with that!
Please please try NOT to be hard on yourself, or at least no AS hard on yourself, okay?
hugs, hugs, hugs, hugs, HUGS oops....hope you're not someone who hates cyberhugs!!
If so I'm in trouble.
I send masses of love, Kath
> Thanks for supporting me no matter how superficial and silly I'm being. That goes for everyone!
>
> -T
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