Posted by karen_kay on June 25, 2007, at 12:51:10
In reply to More onling dating misadventure, posted by Tabitha on June 25, 2007, at 12:12:29
first of all, did you realize you put, 'you sound like a great 'buy'? ha!
perhaps you could put something like, 'as i said, you sound like a great guy, but i don't think we'd make a great match and i'm sure your perfect mate is still out there, as is mine. thank you for your interest, and i'm certainly flattered. i wish you luck in your continued search, just as i'm sure you wish me luck in mine. take care, tabitha'
or, you could always say, 'maybe you need to get your eyes checked, as i thought i made my intentions known the first time. but, perhaps i shoudl repeat this again. NO WAY JOSE! regards, tabitha'
i'm not so good at these things though dear. i'm just trying to be helpful and feel free to completely ignore either fo these choices. but, you'd think that he would have read the options of what to say to someone when not interested (if that's the standard line to give, as told by the help desk or whatever, right?). maybe with some people it takes a bit more forcefulness? or maybe he jsut didn't get the hint the first time?
good luck tabitha and i hope this works out for you dear, not just the 'back off' line, but also the online adventure as well.
kk
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