Posted by Kath on June 18, 2007, at 15:42:37
In reply to Re: My bum hurts, too. » LlurpsieNoodle, posted by jammerlich on June 18, 2007, at 14:30:53
No hunny,
It doesn't negate the bad.
It just means that they're not heaping more hurt on you. Yes, maybe they've changed & that's good 'cuz you (we all) need caring & support.
But, guess what - the old hurts WERE done - even if not intentionally & you're seeking help to heal them. Please try to be pleased with yourself for doing this! Please try not to feel guilty, or ANYthing negative, okay? T is a very positive move for you. The fact that you LET yourself seek help is wonderful.
I applaud you. I also applaud you for accepting your parents' help, even though you feel bitter about it. (On the other hand, if it feels like it's NOT good for you to accept their help, I'm sure the therapist will help you sort that out)
Feelings are feelings. They aren't good or bad. If you have feelings about things that happened before, it's good to get help in sorting them out.
I send you my warm support.
love, Kath
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