Posted by Kath on March 1, 2007, at 15:35:16
In reply to Re: I'm doing somewhat better today.... » Kath, posted by scratchpad on February 28, 2007, at 8:47:44
Hi All,
I didnt' get the clay yesterday, but did get a wonderful massage. My muscles were SO tight. The only thing is that he worked the muscles really much & at night in bed my shoulder was ACHING!!!! To give him credit, he asked if it he was massaging too hard & I said no.
Anyway, last night I got very little sleep; was able to catch some more by sleeping 'til 11:30 a.m.
Son's GF agreed to let him book a flight for her. She agreed to Friday, even though she preferred Saturday. I helped him with the booking & the prices were way better for Monday, so he was able to call her back & tell her she had some bonus days. He asked her to please be sure not to smoke meth on Monday, in case she then didn't want to come back!
Hmmmmmmmm. I feel WAY better. The way the conversation was going on this end, I actually wondered whether she would hang up on him. I could hear her yelling & then he'd say very calmly, "No - I'm not trying to control you; I just love you & am worried about you.." etc.
I was SO impressed with the way he was communicating!!! Probably even better than I could have in that circumstance! He was being so calm & loving & mature & clear. It was amazing! I later told him I was really impressed with his calmness, clearness, etc.
I am aware that she might NOT make it onto the flight & I am doing VERY well at not 'going there'. I think it's important to have a little wee awareness that it might happen & then LEAVE it & not think of it.
I'm trying to be POSITIVE. I actually am going to post something into t new thread. Someone sent it to me & I find it really inspiring!!! And empowering.
Hugs to all. Soon, about the clay - Saturday at the latest, because I teach a 'handbuilding' class & will be in the studio.
love, Kath
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