Posted by alesta on January 31, 2007, at 20:25:09
In reply to apologies » one woman cine, posted by NikkiT2 on January 31, 2007, at 11:39:22
> In my eyes, and the way I have been taught, an apology doesn't contain excuses. It contains a statement that the person ccepts they have done wrong and for that they are sorry. It doesn't contain buts or why's.
Nikki...I didn't put a "but" in my last apology...*only* why's...and there *is nothing wrong* with that. with giving people some information.
BTW, on occasion i have seen you be rude on this site, but i *never* jumped right in there like you did to me. if you want to judge me so harshly, perhaps you should prepare to be judged as well.
i have never heard you tell me when i've done something good. maybe you should try that instead of just telling me when you don't like something i've done. that would certainly be more...human...and compassionate...and approaching me differently might get you further than sarcasm.
when i see tumultuous threads...i try a peacekeeper attitude...it is the good and right thing to do...you don't fight fire with fire. it's unproductive and less...human. i'm rambling at this point but you are not perfect miss nikki. this i do know. so perhaps you might judge *me* a little less...amy
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