Posted by saturn on December 21, 2006, at 19:30:58
In reply to Re: Need advice on Christmas Eve, posted by saturn on December 21, 2006, at 19:28:42
> >>Would you go to a church wedding in which a pastor officiated?
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> Absolutely, but a wedding is a legal proceding, not a religous ceremony. It's similiar to the difference of appropriateness between an alcoholic going to a wedding where alcohol happens to be served versus going to a bar where alcohol consumption is the main event.
> > >I would just relax and go enjoy the music and the pagentry. Try to think of yourself as a tourist.
Thank you so much for your response madeline, and I don't want to be dismissive, but I simply cannot go. I cannot disrespect my values this way.
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> >> Who knows you might enjoy it.
> >
> > >However, I do think your friend is perhaps pushing the limit of what your are comfortable with and at a later time I would discuss this with them.
I agree completely---thanks!
> >>>Maddie
Peace...Saturn
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