Posted by TexasChic on December 20, 2006, at 8:17:08
In reply to Hellish visit to my mother's, posted by capricorn on December 20, 2006, at 2:00:45
Oh capricorn, I'm sorry both you and your brother have to go through all that. Your Mom is being manipulative and cruel. I'm no pdoc or anything, but I would say she doesn't deserve your company. She knows she's got you in a spot where she can say whatever she wants, and you will feel guilty if you don't put up with it. You deserve to have peace of mind, and you will never get it around her. You deserve to be treated like a human being. I think you should cut all communication unless she learns to behave better to you and your brother. Of course, I don't know the details and like I said, I'm no pdoc, so you can take my opinion for what its worth. Its just that I have had to deal with manipulative people like that too, and the thing I learned is nobody can force you to spend time with them, ultimately it come down to being your decision.
I hope things get better for you and your bro. Emotional blackmail's a b*tch.
-T
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