Posted by Happyflower on December 13, 2006, at 10:40:32
In reply to Re: i'm horrible » karen_kay, posted by Phillipa on December 13, 2006, at 10:18:38
I guess it would depend what her mother would think about this. I would be bothered by this if SIL was telling my daugher this, especially at such an early age.
I for one tell my daughter that beauty is what is in the inside of you. You looks never will stay the same and I would rather have my daughter believe she is beautiful no matter how she looks because eventually you lose your looks, if you self esteem is just about how you look, then you will eventually crash.
I don't believe in sacraficising comfort for looks in shoes. I would rather see a women who is smiling because she is comfortable and happy then grinning, baring the pain of her feet because she wants to look good in shoes. Who do you think would be more fun to hang out with?
Maybe I am not the norm, but I really wish we could see the real beauty in a person, not on what they are wearing, the car they drive, or the house they live in. That stuff is just fluff to me. Real beauty isn't painful, it is natural.
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