Posted by rjlockhart on September 29, 2006, at 23:11:02
In reply to Re: How do you develop witty comments, posted by notfred on September 29, 2006, at 19:11:26
Let me say im, well i did overreact. He is in a furtunity, thinks well, he is the man.
There is the book called "Verbal Self Defense" which teaches how to react back to someone that is attacking you. Great book.
I've thought really outrages things about what i am going to do the people who directly insult.... but not psychically, i need to develop the sense of confidence and ability to take on someone who an *sshole.
Im glad i didnt jump across on to him. That was the first reaction in my head. If i was on Amphetamine i would have, or really made him look like an idiot who is just trying to get intelligent attention.
I never well, have had any fights here on psychobabble in the last year. I keep it cool. But in the real world its diffrent. I need confidence.
Maybe i just go to a hypnotist and get him to force me to get out there and do it. Stop staying in you "confort" zone.
Thanks everyone.
Matt
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