Posted by frida on August 30, 2006, at 19:52:23
In reply to Would you believe...., posted by jammerlich on August 30, 2006, at 14:24:55
Hi..
hugs to you.I am sorry you are hurting..I so understand this. I have a special relationship with a teacher-friend, too, and have also ached for that kind of honest, sincere connection.
It's hard to find...and when we find someone we'd like to share that deep sharing, it's so hard to give up that need and longing.Without knowing what happened, it is hard to say...
I've found that sometimes what I imagine and all my fears are not so..and I've been surprised a few times...
One thing that has helped me with my teacher-friend is to try to tell her how I feel, maybe in writing. I've tried to be honest and talk from my heart and sometimes it has been wonderful...and some other times I've just let things be and she has reached out and shared things, despite the fact that she's older than me and was my teacher.It's painful to need a connection so badly...((((hugs))))but please don't lose hope..it is possible to find it...
i wish I could help.
Frida
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