Posted by cloudydaze on July 20, 2006, at 23:58:13
In reply to Re: I think I really do have a BPD » cloudydaze, posted by Deneb on July 20, 2006, at 23:00:42
((((Deneb))))
you are a special person....just wanted to make sure you knew.
I think some people are too sensitive...but then again if i had cancer (or even thought i might have cancer) I would be overly sensitive too...
I can see the situation from both perspectives. On one hand, i know that you didn't mean any harm, and on the other hand, I think maybe they weren't sure of your intentions, but maybe they thought that you were just in it for the hugs, so to speak.
Were you supportive of others? Oftentimes on boards such as these, being supportive of others is a good way to get support yourself. Also, being nice to others should make you feel good. :)
Maybe they just didn't understand Deneb...sometimes that happens, and it is unfortunate.
Maybe instead of posting multiple threads on the cancer, you could keep one thread and just keep updating it when you get new information, or when you're having a hard time dealing with it....that way it might be easier for people to keep track of your thoughts and the development of the situation.
hugs,
cloudy
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