Posted by Deneb on March 6, 2006, at 21:20:40
In reply to Re: I think I'm lonely » Deneb, posted by Emily Elizabeth on March 6, 2006, at 8:49:57
> You are at a university, which can be very helpful in meeting people. Lots of clubs, events, etc. ... Do they have a club for volunteer work or something?
Yes, they have a lot of clubs. Maybe I'll check them out. Maybe I'm no longer afraid of people and I just don't know yet because I don't go out.
> Also, you might check to see if there are support groups at your university counseling ctr. Pdoc would probably know about them. I think such a group could help you realize that many of the things you experience are also experienced by others.
I think that might be a little too scary for me.
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> Okay, sweetie, I've just got to say it one more time: Are you getting psychotherapy?My pdoc gives me psychotherapy. She's great. :-) Right now I don't have enough money or time for therapy every week. First and foremost I have to concentrate on my studies. I'm paying my tutor $15/hr and I don't have any money left over.
> I suspect that therapy could help you feel more comfortable with yourself and therefore more comfortable reaching out to socialize.
Maybe...I hope so.
> I haven't said it for a while, but I wanted to give you another gentle push toward therapy.
You guys really do make a difference. Thanks for the "encouragement" :-) I have a feeling it's going to work. You guys got me to see Pdoc2. You guys have more influence than you know.
Deneb*
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