Posted by JenStar on March 4, 2006, at 16:38:23
In reply to How did you go about building a support system?, posted by Tanzanite on March 3, 2006, at 22:49:33
I think Larry is exactly right with what he says! It's important to get out there and DO stuff with people. The more people you come into contact with, the more chances you have to meet people with whom you click.
Here are a few of my ideas:
1. Check out craigslist.com for your area and look under the "platonic" friends category to possibly meet others looking for friends. Just be careful to meet in public places.
2. Join a bookgroup at the local library.
3. Volunteer at a local food bank, but set it up so you do it on a regular basis. That way you'll get to know the people there and have a chance to meet like-minded friends.
4. Go to church (even if you're not especially religious). Join some of the social groups there. Church people can be REALLLY nice and welcoming.
5. Volunteer at a local art museum or ball park.
6. Take a class at a local community college or parks/rec dept.
Good luck! :)
JenStar
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