Posted by James K on February 16, 2006, at 14:44:04
In reply to Husband has fears, posted by Sabrina_0805 on February 16, 2006, at 13:40:51
Those are just words. I can't stand, I wouldn't be able to handle it, things like that. We all prove those words wrong everyday.
I've told me wife "you can't break down right now, only one of us can be sick at the same time." completely insensitive and selfish, but just words. I try to prove words like that wrong with my actions. I hope and (believe) that your husband is just talking like we males tend to do and not issuing rules or ultimatums.
Maybe he can't say he is scared of it, but will do whatever it takes. Nobody votes for bad things, but it doesn't mean he didn't take his vows for real.
Hope this makes sense and is helpful in some way.
James K
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