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Posted by Lucia Francisca on January 25, 2006, at 12:13:12 [reposted on January 26, 2006, at 0:54:59 | original URL]

Hi. i just wanted to mention that i feel better on weekends. my husband is off friday-sunday and i always feel better when we're hanging out together. i guess having intimate company is really great. maybe i'm just too isolated and it's taking me time to make new friends here. maybe i should have a baby and then have someone else and something else to do. :)
but then i get worried that i'm too dependent on my husband. that he may get sick of me and leave me if i'm too dependent on him or we're together too much. is this a fear of abandonment? i'm not sure.
i guess we moved halfway across the country for his new full-time job. i was writing my dissertation and trying to do that full-time last year, but got pretty isolated. maybe i should just chuck it and get a full time job? but i really don't know what to do about my future. i'm scared and uncertain.
please, some of you are really wise. can you give me suggestions on what's best to do in my predicament?

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