Posted by LegWarmers on January 21, 2006, at 15:30:02
In reply to agreeing w/ someone when they dis someone else?, posted by JenStar on January 20, 2006, at 17:11:01
These things are frustrating. For me when I am upset and I say things out of anger I do find that I wonder about what the other person said about that person, I wonder if they meant it, and if they really feel that way or if they were just trying to make me feel better, it seems that most people do this though....but I also feel terrible after I have sorted out the problem and realize that I badmouthed someone. So it goes both ways, Im sure the person that said the stuff is feeling pretty bad about it.
I try to stay away from saying things when people are upset, I find its important to keep 'my things' out of anothers fight/disagreement, I learned that the hard way. I definately can get caught up in the heat of the moment though!
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