Posted by Racer on January 6, 2006, at 1:17:23
In reply to Re: This is making me paranoid » Racer, posted by JenStar on January 5, 2006, at 19:59:21
> hi Racer,
> I think I misunderstood the past history there...if there is someone who tracks you on line (creepy!), I agree it's quite possible that he/she might do something mean. I wish there was a way to find out for sure if it was that person, just to give you peace of mind.
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> is there any way you could contact one of those poeple and ask them about it, or would that only reopen past wounds?I thought about something like that -- I have email addresses for all these people, once of whom I met online, and thought I'd write an email saying something along the lines of, "It's over, it's in the past, and this is NOT acceptable behavior." But you know what? Whoever is doing this is holding on to contact with me, through this sick behavior, and if I were to write, that would be more direct contact.
Basically, Jen, right now I'm feeling like I'm giving her what she wants no matter what I do: Either I contact her, and she can hold on to whatever this is for her; or I don't and -- whether or not she ever knows this -- continue to be upset by it. She is getting a reaction from it, either way, even if she doesn't know she's getting it.
Oh, and all four of the suspects I have in mind are female. That makes it even worse. I kinda half expect that men are alien creatures ;-D, but expect better from women. Guess I read too many Sylvia comics over the years...
Thank you. Even more than I appreciate your caring, I really appreciate your responding so generously to my disagreement with you.
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