Posted by Tamar on October 15, 2005, at 7:20:39
In reply to single people, I need some answers! Okay, please?, posted by happyflower on October 14, 2005, at 22:09:04
> If you saw a married person, and liked them, would you let the fact that they are married, stop you from fliting or doing perhaps more if they other person was willing?
Many years ago, before I met my husband, I fell in love with a married man. I knew his marriage was very unhappy (he didn’t actually live with his wife), but nevertheless he was married. So I never told him I was in love with him, though we did become friends. And after a while I wasn't in love with him any more and I had other partners. Eventually he got divorced and after that we had a brief fling…
To be honest, I think the responsibility for unfaithfulness lies mostly with the married person. I'm not saying the single person in this kind of situation is exempt from blame. But ultimately the person breaking marriage vows is the married person. And the person with responsibility for the spouse’s feelings is the person who is married to her/him.
Just my two cents…
Tamar
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