Posted by sleepygirl on September 18, 2005, at 20:53:31
In reply to Do you think I scared Dr. Bob away?, posted by Deneb on September 17, 2005, at 18:19:42
Hey Deneb, I'm going to say something and you can tell me not to post to you of course if I piss you off, but it's just something I'm noticing.
You were so sure before you were blocked that Dr. Bob didn't like you, held something against you. When he acknowleged you by putting up the picture you made it was almost like you couldn't handle any evidence of him NOT having ill will toward you.
You really sort of "upped the ante" with your behavior thereafter, and thereby ensured for yourself (by virtue of your own actions) that you would be dealt with harshly.
I think this served to verify for you whatever horrible opinion you must have of yourself and how you imagine other people might be rejecting of you.
I think for whatever reason the idea of what "Dr. Bob" represents brings up something for you.
Food for thought, or not. I wish you the best.
poster:sleepygirl
thread:556080
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