Posted by Susan47 on June 29, 2005, at 19:15:22
In reply to thanks, posted by Shortelise on June 27, 2005, at 1:54:55
Yes but if what you're doing makes you feel good that doesn't cancel out the positive effect of the deed. It reiterates to me at least, that when you take care of your needs you are being an altruist.. just as a side-effect of taking care of yourself ...
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