Posted by rainbowbrite on June 24, 2005, at 0:26:01
In reply to Re: thanks guys » rainbowbrite, posted by Jazzed on June 23, 2005, at 23:34:39
> Your perceptions and experiences are different than anyone else's. No one can feel things exactly the way you do.
I know but.....but....but...
> I always figured my siblings grew up in the same house, obviously they had the same experiences and feelings, but I found out, as an adult, that their's were completely different. It blew me away that they were SO different. We had the same parents, lived in the same house, etc.... But they feel things and deal with things so vastly differently than I do.
Oh absolutely! yes Ive noticed the same thing. It really interesting actually...how differnet people are even when growing up together. I wonder whats better? being distant from emotion or being close with it....youd think Id be perfect since Im not distant and Im not all that close...but I AM SO NOT!!
> Now I see that it's that way with everyone, and it's very confusing. Our filters, defenses, and feelings are all different. I guess depending on how we grew up, were treated, and how we're wired to begin with.
but why Jazzy.....why?
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