Posted by AdaGrace on May 6, 2005, at 8:45:15
In reply to Re: such a downer,sorry..but can i talk about suic » alesta, posted by gardenergirl on May 6, 2005, at 7:21:41
Alesta,
I have been in the situation where I didn't post because all I had to say was negative. So I didn't post. Perhaps people thought of me as standoffish, but all I felt was selfishness. I wasn't able to post to any thread but my own. Wasn't able to offer help or advise, and didn't. I still go through periods where I am like this. Today however, I am in a helpful, talkative mood. So here goes.
I like you Alesta. I care about you. You seem a little panicy right now and that concerns me. However, I find it encouraging that you are talking. You don't have to have something positive to say in order to post here. Lord knows I don't often. But please think of this...No matter what you feel, what you are thinking, it is okay to express that. I don't think anyone on here would chastize you for it. I think talking through your problems is better than holding them inside. This is what drew me to this place to start with. Being able to talk to someone, anyone about what was going on in my life and not be judged for it was a great appeal to me. And also the privacy factor. I didn't have to tell this to my husband, I didn't have to tell anything to my family, siblings, friends.....and I was able to get my feelings out. That is why you should stay here. To have unconditional support, love, and friendship. Post when you can Alesta. I often am limited on my computer use as well. I understand. Take care Sweety. You are special in so many ways.
AdaGrace
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