Posted by sunny10 on April 21, 2005, at 12:55:31
In reply to Re: my ex husband wants to be friends. » woolav, posted by broken on April 21, 2005, at 12:32:20
also beware of your ex "using you"... I not only agree with the other posters, but I have been in a position where my ex "needed a friend", so he just picked me because we had a son in common.
What wound up happening is that he was still expecting me to be his emotional sponge... spouting out angry rages about motorists and whatever new girl he met on the internet, et cetera.
I didn't need that in my marriage, and I certainly didn't need it while trying to move on...
And your new husband shouldn't have to deal with any more of your ex than he has to for the kids- which includes your mood after being on the phone with the ex!!!
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