Posted by Spriggy on April 8, 2005, at 17:19:56
In reply to Being ignored, posted by ed_uk on April 8, 2005, at 16:53:03
have you asked them (each one) what is going on? That's what I would suggest.It could be they have valid reasons (life, busyness, sickness, etc.). So give them a chance to explain before you let it hurt you.
As far as the friend who wants to be "left alone" maybe he's just at a tough place in his own life right now; depression, anxiety, or just difficulty and wants time to reflect. It may not be directly related to you at all.
You are an intelligent guy with so much helpful information- you've answered my questions lots of time which shows you have compassion.
Maybe right now, sit down and write out a list of 5 wonderful things about yourself; things that make you who you are, and focus on that during this time without these friends.(((HUGS)))
poster:Spriggy
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