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Re: Hospitality?? » PhoenixGirl

Posted by alexandra_k on February 20, 2005, at 1:08:58

In reply to Re: Hospitality??, posted by PhoenixGirl on February 20, 2005, at 1:01:48

> I think your flatmates are definitely not respecting you. The flat is yours as well as theirs, so you guys should make decisions about the flat jointly.

Thanks.

>I think that this is a good opportunity for you to practice asserting yourself and taking care of your needs. My opinion is that you should talk to your flatmates directly. You can set boundaries about what is ok and what is not!

Hmm. Um. See, I am bringing it up today because I am moving out tomorrow (insert blushing emoticon here). But I do want to be clearer on that (ie whether I should just chill out or whether I should be more 'hey you buggers it is my flat too') in the next flat. I don't think it will be so bad next time because they seem much stricter on visitors vacating the building by 10.30. And the entranceways are kept locked. Whereas the place I am in currently is more individual cottages and doors tend to be left unlocked etc. Easier for people without keys to come and go.

Thanks.

 

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