Posted by Angel Girl on January 23, 2005, at 16:13:47
In reply to Re: please rephrase that - PS Dr. Bob, posted by gardenergirl on January 23, 2005, at 15:46:07
I understand what you're saying about taking ownership of my feelings and I realize (through therapy) that I *choose* how to react to things. BUT if I was to say that "I continue to feel hurt." and not give the reason why, others will think it is only because of that word still being in the subject line, which it is, but also for another reason that it seems that I am not allowed to state, as it will lead someone to feel hurt and put down. Therefore; the other person's feelings are spared, which I don't have a problem with, but nobody will understand what *exactly* is continuing to upset me.
AG
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