Posted by nikkit2 on January 10, 2005, at 7:31:03
In reply to Re: What's so wrong with me that nobody likes me? » alexandra_k, posted by Angel Girl on January 10, 2005, at 3:36:33
" How can people that were close to you before, all of a suddenly forget you like you're yesterday's news?"
Maybe they needed to do that for their own health?
I had a friend that I have had to ask not to contact me anymore, and I have put her email address etc on my blocked list.
Its not that I have forgotten she exists, but to save my OWN health and sanity, I had to do this.There comes a point sometimes, where you have to step away.. I had to else I was going to get very very ill.. and I did not want that to happen. MY health and wellbeing has to come first to me these days. I work hard to stay well, and I didn't want to see all my work being undone by an overly needy neurotic friend..
I don't know what happened for you, but can you say it was ALL the other peoples faults? There is normally a reason a person asks someone else not to contact them, its unlikely they simply did this for fun (unless they are 15 ofcourse!).
Sorry I couldn't give you advice on exactly what to do.. but maybe you do need to simply move on from them and start making new friends.
Nikki
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