Posted by Cass on December 17, 2004, at 14:11:35
In reply to Re: i've noticed something interesting..., posted by Miss Honeychurch on December 17, 2004, at 13:34:45
When I was younger, I had a male T because I deeply longed for a father figure/male presence. That relationship ended badly because he was unprofessional and inappropriate. Later I had a couple of female Ts who somtimes acted motherly. I don't care for that. I like to be spoken to with directness, kindness and respect. I find the "motherly" thing condescending and not helpful. I don't have a T now, but if I did it wouldn't matter what gender they were so long as I felt they were professional and respectful.
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