Posted by lostforwards on December 8, 2004, at 13:55:51
In reply to Re: more ranting :-) (ABOUT PORN), posted by lostforwards on December 8, 2004, at 13:44:01
Actually... let me tell you why I would rather not think about the worst case scenario, not just with porn but with sex in general. I don't like to think of suffering or pain when I think of sex or look at porn.
But the first time I was with a girl doing anything sexual, when she intiated something, and after it was all over I actually asked her "why did you do that?". Deep down I thought she had degraded herself. I thought there was something ugly about what she'd done, as fun as it was and I was stupid ( disinhibited? ) enough to ask that question. That's the type of aura I don't like lingering in the background when I look at porn. If it's there, it effects my attitude about sex unless I can comfortably repress it. At the time I was with her, a few years ago, I had no problem with porn, but I did have a problem with sex. I think my problem with sex had something to do with a problem I have with porn, because your posts seem to touching on something.
Feeling sick or anxious ( in a bad way ) at the sight of a nude women can't be healthy, can it?
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